Last night I met one of teachers of mine, he told me that I should give free space to son. His daughter is an example who lives in a good free environment. She is three year old,and very lovely and cute, just like a foreign girl. I like her very much.
My teacher told that when babe want to do something, just let him to do it, not to stop him and just look at him form danger. "scientific ways are not the best to babe,for science is still developing."
He told me that: when his daughter was one year old, she was play mom's body lotion, and made them on all over her body. They didn't stop her, just for they see the body lotion as a daughter's toy, which other babe couldn't play.
Further more, everything I should give a chance for son to express his opinion. I saw he talked with daughter, "want to eat more?" and the daughter said: no! So he didn't force her to eat. They seem to be good friends and equality.
It is very different from us, we seduce babe to eat more with every way. And we always put our idea on him.
I understand now that we shall give him free space.
My teacher told that when babe want to do something, just let him to do it, not to stop him and just look at him form danger. "scientific ways are not the best to babe,for science is still developing."
He told me that: when his daughter was one year old, she was play mom's body lotion, and made them on all over her body. They didn't stop her, just for they see the body lotion as a daughter's toy, which other babe couldn't play.
Further more, everything I should give a chance for son to express his opinion. I saw he talked with daughter, "want to eat more?" and the daughter said: no! So he didn't force her to eat. They seem to be good friends and equality.
It is very different from us, we seduce babe to eat more with every way. And we always put our idea on him.
I understand now that we shall give him free space.
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