时间真的在不停的飞逝，这一晃老妈带着Eason回黑龙江已经一个多月了，前阵子工作忙酒吧忙，所以没觉得很漫长，最近稍闲又临近春节，真是觉得没有儿子在身边的日子有些失落，没有老妈在身边的日子少了很多温暖。

    一有时间便和家里视频，感觉到爸妈因为Eason在身边虽然辛苦但心情不错，让我安慰，看到Eason在爸妈细心的呵护与照顾下健康快乐的成长，让我放心。只是，每次小家伙一喊“妈妈”的时候，眼眶就发热，喉咙就发紧，思念之情一下子溢满整颗心，让我不得不要求老爸老妈快点带Eason回来，虽然大冬天的折腾爸妈还要他们适应新环境真是不舍得。唉，真是没办法啊！我对儿子思念的克服期大概也只有这么长了。

    回黑龙江娘家有阵子了，因为回来便赶上大热天，闷热的天气让人倦怠,前阵子Eason又第一次生病，高烧达39度，弄的我火大的要命，所以就拖到今天这样一个下雨风吹的凉爽天气才来更新我大宝贝的空间，嘿！

    呵呵，之所以说搬回姥姥家，是因为这次回来真像搬家一样。老公休年假正好drove us home，后备箱里满满的只剩塞根针的空隙，后坐上我和一个大大的整理箱并排而坐，周围及脚下还放了N个袋袋，也不知哪来的这N多的东西？！以前出行都是我的东西最多最罗嗦，现在我终于可以继刘熠琛之后而退居第二啦，哈哈！

    小家伙的身体还算结实，从铁岭折腾回姥姥家两天，丝毫没有一丝倦意，到了姥姥家就开始边爬边喊，兴奋极了！精神头儿十足！有病的几天里除了高烧39度那天傍晚有些吭吭叽叽，其余时候都是脑门上顶着退热贴像平时一样认真的玩耍和淘气，丝毫不改身为小魔头的作风。分别了一段时间的老爸总是看着小孙子笑的嘴都合不拢。看着老爸满意的表情，想想老爸生着病上着班还什么都要自己照顾自己，心头有些酸，眼眶有些湿，做为女儿，为他做的真是太少太少了！

    六月八号，Eason满八个月，身高70cm,体重8.8公斤，头围45cm，胸围45cm。再有四五天，宝贝就满九个月啦！时间过的还真挺快！

    老妈家的living room很大很宽，分开两个区，都呈四方形，铺了好大一片地板块，小Eason在上面爬半天才能抓到可以扶站的家具，因为了解多多爬行对宝宝大脑的发育很有好处又可以培养专注力，所以尽量不给宝贝站和走的机会，因此回来这段时间Eason在这两个方面同七个月时候的水平相当，没什么大的进步，但却是件好事。

    其实我也不太清楚九个月大的宝宝应该会些什么，但我想Eason不算是笨宝宝吧，呵呵。最近发现他开始会自己玩儿了，拿起件玩具会先上下左右前前后后的研究一番，再放在嘴里去啃（晕，啃这个动作不知道要持续到什么时候），比如：

上次和老公去沈阳给Eason买了套钓鱼的玩具，小家伙对三只表情极可爱做工极精细的小海洋动物丝毫不感兴趣，偏偏对鱼杆上那个粘贴式的蓝色手柄情有独钟。他就是忍受不了那个手柄粘在鱼杆上，可想尽方法却无法把它拿下来。一日，我发现小家伙牙手并用的费了好半天劲儿终于把手柄拿了下来，我立刻把手柄重新套回鱼杆上粘起来，小家伙几乎是从我手上抢回了鱼杆，用同样的方法---先用牙咬住粘贴处使劲往起一拽，粘贴便开了个口，接着再用小手抓住开口处一用力，粘贴便彻底开了，鱼杆和手柄分开了，小脸上也露出了满意的表情。我看宝贝真是掌握了方法，便鼓掌夸他好宝宝，good boy！说着再把粘贴粘回去，Eason同样几乎是抢回去再弄开，紧接着便看着我等着我再夸他，来来回回几次，他似乎非常enjoy，我的手掌都拍疼了，小家伙却乐此不疲，可怜呀我的手:( 可是看着儿子天真无邪的可爱脸蛋，还是心甘情愿的继续配合。

怀孕期间每天胎教的时候我都会念《小蝌蚪找妈妈》的故事，Eason出生后三个月起每天也会找时间念这个故事给他听，一遍中文，一遍英文，最开始的时候Eason只会用两只小手不停的抓书，或者东张西望的不看书。我想是我的坚持让他对这本书这个故事产生了感情进而有助于阅读习惯的养成。渐渐的我发现每次念故事的时候他小手的动作减少了，眼睛也越来越长时间的盯在了书上。现在只要我拿出这本书，小家伙就会飞奔似的爬到我身边，然后坐直了盯着书等我念给他听。

最近有教他翻书，因为小手不够灵活，读完一页我便翻起这页把住他的小手一起翻到下一页，小家伙领悟的很快。现在只要我说翻翻，小家伙的小手就伸到书旁在我的帮助下翻到下一页，然后小手再老老实实的放回到自己的小腿上，五根手指伸的直直的，时刻准备着的状态，真是喜爱死个人！而且，不管拿出什么样的书来，只要大人念给他听，他就会乖乖的听上好半天，严肃的小表情就像他真听懂了一样，哈哈！

贝亲的喝水训练杯分三个阶段，到了八个月就应该用吸管了，可我给Eason试了N次他都只是咬咬，不会吸，气的我直喊笨宝宝！后来请教了高人才知道原来是我的方法不对，我按照毛毛妈的指示，先用喝酸奶的吸管在他小舌头上点些水，再拿训练杯给他喝，第一次他咬了咬，第二次试着吸了一口，吸出水来了，抬头朝我咯咯笑了两声，然后大口大口的吸了起来！哈！只这么简单我的宝贝就学会了用吸管！看来方法，方法很重要啊！没有天生的笨宝宝，只要家长掌握了方法都会培养出聪明的宝宝！看来，教育宝宝的过程也是家长需要不断学习的过程啊！

    说到方法，想起了喂养方法。自从添加了辅食，Eason一直吃的不太好，前阵子连好都谈不上，简直差极了！毛毛妈成了我顾问，把Eason连续一两天的吃饭情况跟毛毛妈讲了之后，毛毛妈让我试试间隔久一点喂宝宝，让宝宝有饥饿感从而好好进食。第一天就有了效果，早上6点喝奶之后，直到11点才喂米粉，居然用了五分钟左右就吃了比平时多的量，而且吃的很香，吃光米粉后还吃了1/3瓶的蔬菜泥！下午4点再喂面条，吃了差不多整整一扎！晕掉，原来做1/2扎连哄带唱的一半都吃不完！晚上八点洗完澡喂奶粉，喝了200毫升！毛毛妈简直就是我的偶象啊！

    接下来这些天辅食吃的都不错，只是喝奶还是很不稳定，200的时候很少，多数时候150或120，一天只两顿奶加半夜小家伙只吃60到80，多一口都不肯吃，这样一来奶量又成了问题，真是让人愁不完的愁啊！不过，辅食吃的好了足够让我开心一阵子啦！至于奶嘛，也许像毛毛妈说的，慢慢胃口撑大了自然也就喝的多了呢，宝宝渐渐长大了，奶就会慢慢变成辅食了。好在我的小魔头一向精神超好，每天都是一副淘起来不要命的劲头。不如放松一下紧崩的神经吧!

       上周末，老妈回来了，谢天谢地！！Eason并没有像想像中的那么认生，只一会儿功夫就和姥姥重新混熟，并很快就忘记了我这个妈妈，只在困了饿了的时候会想起找我，唉！

Last weenkend, my mum came back finally! Eason wasn't that shy with strangers as we expected. And it took just a short while to get aquainted with grandma. He could only remember me--his mummy-- when he feels sleepy or hungry.

        姥姥回来了，天也暖和了，白天就不再给Eason穿纸尿裤了，七个半月了，其实早该开始锻炼把尿了。也许是把尿频繁的原因，使宝宝开始对把尿产生腻烦，一把尿Eason就使劲打挺，表现出非常不满意和不高兴的情绪，突然有一天，他一边使劲打挺一边嘴里发出类似“妈”的音阶，我一时兴奋忘了把尿的事儿，抱起儿子又亲又啃，一会儿我突然觉得腿上热乎乎的，一低头，晕！我的裤子被尿湿了！接下来几天里，那个类似“妈”的声音便总是从小家伙的嘴里发出，但总是在他不高兴的时候才有，比如那天去医院通泪囊脑袋和手脚被把住动不得眼睛又被弄的不舒服的时候，小家伙边大声哭边发出“ma-ma”的声音，哭的我心里直心疼，叫我的心里直心酸哪！不知道这是Eason有意识的在叫妈妈，或者只是无意识的学发音而已，无论哪种吧，我都爱听的要命，嘿！

Since grandma is back and it's becoming warmer, I stopped using baby diapers in the daytime. Eason has been 7 and half months old, it's time to form his consciousness of pee-pee. But frequent go-pee-pee has made Eason very unhappy. One day, when I was making him go pee-pee again, he refused with all his strengh and at the same time, a sound of "ma" came out of his mouth. I was quite excited when hearing it and kissed my baby all over his face, throwing the whole go-pee-pee thing out of my mind. A few minutes later, I felt warm and wet in my leg. Geuss what?! Eason pissed on my pants!! Now I can often hear him say "ma" or "ma-ma", but always at the time he is unhappy or dissatisfied. Like one morning we took him to the hospital for his eye promblem. He couldn't move at all under daddy's control in order to cooperate the doctor's treatment. My baby cried hard and shouted "ma-ma, ma, ma-ma", which made me really broken-hearted! I had no ideas whether Eason was calling mummy consciously or not, but I knew exactly that I was extremely happy to hear that.

       宝宝的进步真是惊人的快啊，上午还坐不稳要人时不时扶一下的小魔头，下午就突然会坐坐了。我把宝宝摆成正坐的姿势，在他面前放个大玩具让他摆弄，我则坐在他后面以便有倾倒趋势的时候及时抢救，而后我的眼睛和心思便飘到电视上关注起四川地-震来，过了好半天等我反过神来低头看宝宝的时候，发现小魔头仍然保持着刚才的坐姿，津津有味的揪着玩具上的小香蕉呢！我这一溜神至少也有五六分钟呢！而后我意识到，我的小魔头宝宝，他会坐啦！

My baby is progressing very fast. In the morning, he couldn't sit stablly by himself, while in the afternoon, he suddenly learnt to sit on his own. I made him sit rightly, put a big toy in front of him and sat behind him in order to "save" him in time whenever he was tend to fall. Then I threw myself into the TV news about the earthquake happened recently in Sichuan Province. After quite a while, I pulled my attention from the TV to my son. Gosh! He remained the same pose there pulling the plastic banana on the toy, seriously! I had watched the news at least for 5 to 6 minutes which meant he could sit for that long time already. Then I realized my little Devil had learnt to sit!

        每天都会带宝宝去楼上弹弹电子琴，说是为了培养他的音乐细胞，哈哈，实则就是多给他找个玩具。因为Eason特别喜欢走路，于是一天我突发奇想，让宝宝学上楼梯吧！我扶着他走到楼梯间，小家伙上下瞧了瞧，身体往上使劲，脚却不知如何配合，只得回过头向我投来求助的眼神。我于是用手抬起他的一只小脚放到楼梯上，接着再抬另一只。小魔头竟然不爱学习，只顾抓着我的手要抱抱。没过两天当我再次扶他走到楼梯前的时候他竟然懂得了抬腿上楼！！小家伙抬起右脚试探高度，找到合适的位置放稳右脚，然后左脚紧跟着上去，因为楼梯对他的小脚来说还很大，所以他要走两步才能再上第二阶，这时候他会抬起左脚重复刚才的动作过程，但大多数时候不会两脚轮换，右脚的利用率比较高，呵呵。

I take Eason upstairs to play my electronic organs everyday to foster his interest in music, but actually just to get him one more toy. One day, I suddenly got an idea --teaching Eason to walk stairs since he likes walking so much. I supported him to walk to the stairs to the attic. Eason watched around for quite a few seconds and wanted to go up,but he didn't know how to move upward. What he could do was just turning his head back to me for help. I raised one of his feet to a step of staircase and then another, but the little Devil just hold my hands for a hug instead of learning. Days later, when we walked to the stairs again, he unexpectedly knew how to walk the stairs!! He lifted his right foot to feel out the height to find a flat place to stand, then another foot followed up quickly. Because the stairs are huge for his little feet, he needed to walk one or two steps to reach the second step of staircase. He lifted his left foot this time and repeated the whole process again. Eason didn't know how to alternate different foot yet, so the right foot was lifted more times :)

        都说让宝宝少走少坐多爬好，因为爬会锻炼宝宝的专注力和四肢协调能力从而有助于智力的发育。于是我决定让宝宝由走楼梯改为爬楼梯，哈哈。第一次让他趴在楼梯上的时候他一脸的茫然，不知道如何协调小手小脚让自己向上前进，于是我想，宝宝刚刚会爬不久，爬楼梯对他来说可能太难了，还是算了。一天姥姥抱他去楼梯间玩儿，我突然听到姥姥兴奋的喊我快去看，我一路小跑过去，看见Eason手脚配合的天衣无缝，一阶楼梯接一阶楼梯的往上爬呢，动作那叫一灵活！！（整个动作过程描述起来较复杂，省略）我兴奋地问老妈，你教他的？老妈一脸疑惑的看着我说，我以为是你教他的！My God！无师自通？真让我骄傲！

I was told that it's better for the baby to crawl more than to walk and sit because crawling will train the power of concentration and the coordination of limbs. I decided to train Eason to climb up the stairs instead of walking them. The first time when I put him on the stairs, with a puzzled face, Eason didn't know how to coordinate his hands and feet to go up. I thought maybe I was a little bit pushed. One day when he was playing with grandma in the stairs, I heard grandma calling me with excitement. I ran there and saw Eason, my cute son, was climbing up one step after another of the stairs really agilely with hands and feet perfectly coordinated! I asked my mum excitedly,"Did you teach him to do so?" My mum gave me a confused face and said," No! I thought you taught him to climb up!" My God! Self-taught? Eason, I'm really proud of you!

        开心总会伴随着烦恼吗？最近小家伙的饭量突然减少，由原来的180和150减到120和90，甚至60，而且最近两三天连以前爱吃的鸡肝猪肝泥和鱼泥都突然不爱吃了，怎么逗都不张嘴了，只要小勺一送到他嘴边，小嘴儿就立刻紧闭，一副宁死不屈服的模样，真是让我又爱又愁啊！