每次写“成长在线”我都非常认真。这不仅可以给孩子在成长的过程中留下些记忆,不仅可以起到“家园联系”的作用,更重要的是我认为我必须要尊重老师的劳动。每个月我只需要写一份,而老师却要写近二十份;我只需要谈一个孩子、一种感受,而老师要谈近二十孩子、近二十种不同的感受,这种1:20的劳动差别,让我不敢怠慢。在老师娟秀的字体下,我看到了老师的博爱之心,也看到了老师的辛劳……每天接送孩子,都很想抓紧时间问问老师自己孩子在幼儿园的情况,多和老师沟通,多培养一下感情。这可能是每位做家长的心情。而我却总是刻意地去抑制自己的这种心情。想想,老师已经辛苦了一天,下班后同我一样也是“家庭妇女”,也需要为生活奔忙,真是不忍心多占用老师的精力和时间了。倒是老师比我“积极”的多呢,发现孩子的问题老师主动同我沟通,我们一起帮助孩子认识对错,正视好坏,改正小缺点。 孩子在10月份,过完了她6周岁的生日。6年的时间恍如隔日。孩子爸在孩子生日当天送给我一份“厚重”的礼物-----MOMMY ANGEL(孩子的守护天使)
Once upon a time there was a child ready to be born. So one day he asked God,” They tell me you are sending me to earth tomorrow but how am I going to live there being so small and helpless?"
God replied,” Among the many angels, I chose one for you. She will be waiting for you and will take care of you."
But the child wasn't sure he really wanted to go.” But tell me, here in Heaven, I don't do anything else but sing and smile, that's enough for me to be happy."
"Your angel will sing for you and will also smile for you every day. And you will feel your angel's love and be happy."
"And how am I going to be able to understand when people talk to me,” the child continued,” if I don't know the language that men talk?"
God patted him on the head and said,” Your angel will tell you the most beautiful and sweet words you will ever hear, and with much patience and care, your angel will teach you how to speak."
"And what am I going to do when I want to talk to you?"
But God had an answer for that question too.”
Your angel will place your hands together and will teach you how to pray."
"I've heard that on earth there are bad men, who will protect me?"
"Your angel will defend you even if it means risking her life!"
"But I will always be sad because I will not see you anymore,” the child continued warily.
God smiled on the young one.”
Your angel will always talk to you about me and will teach you the way for you to come back to me, even though I will always be next to you."
At that moment there was much peace in Heaven, but voices from earth could already be heard. The child knew he had to start on his journey very soon. He asked God one more question, softly, "Oh God, if I am about to leave now, please tell me my angel's name."God touched the child on the shoulder and answered,”
Your angel's name is not hard to remember.
You will simply call her Mommy."
这篇短文,令我既“泪颜”也“汗颜”。为之感动而泪颜,为自己的不称职而汗颜。我把它译成小故事也讲给女儿听:
从前,有个孩子马上就要出生了。因此他问上帝:“听说明天你就送我去人间了,但是,我这么弱小和无助,我在那儿怎么生活呢?”
上帝答道:“在众多的天使中,我为你挑选了一位。她会守候你、无微不至地呵护你。” 小孩还是拿不准自己是否真的想去。“但是在天堂,我除了唱啊,笑啊以外,什么也不做。这就足以让我感到幸福了。”
“你的天使每天会为你唱歌,对你微笑。你会感受她的爱,并因此而更加幸福。” “如果我不懂人类的语言,他们对我说话时,我怎么听得懂呢?”孩子继续问道。
上帝轻轻地拍了一下孩子的脑袋说:“你的天使会对你说最最美丽、最最动听的话语,而这些都是你从未听过的。她还会不厌其烦地教你说话。”
“如果我想与您说话怎么办?”
上帝胸有成竹地回答:“你的天使会将你的双手合拢,教你如何祈祷,与我说话。”
“听说人间有很多坏蛋,谁来保护我呢?”
“就算冒着生命危险,你的天使也会保护你,不让你受到任何伤害的。”
“但是见不到您,我会难过的。”小孩小心翼翼说道。
听到这儿,上帝对着小孩笑了。“尽管我会一直陪伴你左右,你的天使仍会同你经常提起我,并教你如何重返天堂。”
此时,天堂一片宁静,人间的声音已经可以听到了,小孩明白自己得赶紧上路了。 他又轻声问了最后一个问题,“哦,上帝,假如我现在就要出发,请你告诉我,我的天使叫什么名字。”
上帝把手放在小孩的肩上,答道:“你的天使的名字很容易记住,你可以简单地称呼她为——妈妈。”
一直认为孩子是降落凡间的天使,真没想到,原来“妈妈”才是真正的天使,是上帝为孩子安排的守护天使。 而我想说,其实孩子们的守护天使除了妈妈,还有他们将会碰到的一位位老师。老师象妈妈一样也在细心守护、精心呵护着每一个孩子。老师是孩子们公用的妈妈,是孩子们共同拥有的天使!拥有天使妈妈、天使老师的孩子们,将会慢慢认识这个世界;将会不再惧怕这个世界;将会幸福地生活在这美丽的人世间。